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There's a level of being hit on that makes me feel good, but it can easily become unwanted. If an attractive man checks me out, I'm flattered and that makes me smile. If an attractive man approaches me, I immediately find a way to mention my husband. If he backs off, then the encounter gives me a confidence boost because a non-sleezeball found me attractive enough to hope for a shot. If he says something like "That's too bad" and backs off that adds an extra boost. It's flattering.

BUT if the guy doesn't back off when he finds out I'm married, I label him as a sleeze and I feel offended. Jerks like that will fuck anything with a vagina and that is offensive.

I just like to know I can still turn heads. I have zero interest in any other guy. And I don't NEED the attention. It just makes me feel confident.

It feels good to know you're beautiful...and still desireable in general. Not that you're necessarily desireable to OTHER men....but you may have heard it a million times from your husband. Who is he kidding?? He said I was hot when I had my head in a toilet puking my guts out during morning sickness. Lol, why would I believe him??

I don't think the attention she's looking for is necessarily to hook up, it's just to know someone besides her spouse would even think about it.

Sounds like going to the store with no intent to buy something.

Guys are always going to be attracted to girls, well straight guys. But to each it's own.

I also do not "check" guys out...I might notice if a man is VERY good looking...but can honestly say I have not looked at another man in a sexual way for YEARS. Even movie stars...

I was at the gym last week and a well put together guy was working out in my eyeline...but all I could think about was that he reminded me of my husband from about 8 years ago, lol. Staring at what was probably a very "hot" guy...and I was only thinking about my hubby.

Well, duh!

I think a lot of women do dress skimpy for attention, but for others it's for themselves. I sometimes dress a little slutty because my husband loves it. I will admit I don't mind if he's not the only one looking, but I'm not intentionally seeking out attention from others.

As for checking out packages, I don't usually. Sometimes I notice, but only if the guy is wearing sweats with no underwear or something. And in that case I'm kind of grossed out. I definitely appreciate a good-looking guy though. DH can usually tell when a hottie catches my eye and I can tell the same for him. Sometimes we talk about what we found attractive and then maybe work it into a fantasy that we act out.

I can notice and appreciate beauty in all its forms (male and female). When it comes to guys though, I do not check out his package, but I will notice nice eyes and butt.

Even when single...I did not look at a guy's package. Or his ass. I used to have a thing for facial hair (still kinda do...but hubby isn't allowed to have any )...so if he could grow some decent stubble on his face, I was into him.

This discussion reminds me of that superman picture someone had in their signature.

I REALLY don't care for looks or anything much. I was attracted to my hubby when he was nice enough to walk me home the night we met at the carnival. (My friends knew him and then ditched us both once we were chatting.)