with all the sudden girlfriend bashing lately?? For months now, nobody's jumped on girlfriends for being on the site. But now all of the sudden, every gf or fiancee post is filled with comments telling her to learn how to read because it's "truemilitaryWIVESconfessions" and bullshit like that.

I thought we got that all out of our systems last year

I swear the bitches on that site just cycle through the same bitchfest topics over and over.

I saw that too, and it makes me angry. Sure, there are plenty of things wives deal with that g/fs don't. But g/fs have to deal with bitchy wives in addition to the military basically not recognizing them as an important person to notify in case of injury, casualty, etc etc. Plus, since when did putting a piece of metal on your finger automatically make you better than you were the day before? I don't get it... I was both, and its definitely been better being a wife, but I wanted all the info about what was going on with my then-boyfriend just as much as I do now that we're married!

Actually, let's just list the stupid arguments that keep coming up again and again... (PS, I may be sarcastic here once or twice! )

1. Officers wives are snobby/ enlisted wives are trashy (this one's actually due to come up soon, haven't seen it in awhile... )

2. If your husband is deployed you ARE NOT A SINGLE MOM- SINGLE MOMS HAVE IT WAY HARDER! DON'T EVEN BEGIN TO TRY TO COMPARE THE TWO!

3. Infertile women are bitches/ fertile women are insensitive and trashy

4. Its not YOUR money, its HIS money. He earns it, not you...

5. Army wives are trashy/better than everyone else, Marine wives are snotty/better than anyone else, AF wives are slutty/better than everyone else, Navy wives are whiny/better than everyone else, Guard wives just don't know/are better than everyone else.

6. If your husband is annoying you at all, he's probably cheating

7. If you go to a place that serves alcohol, you are DEFINITELY cheating

8. If you complain about where you live, your husband's deployment, your family, or your life in general, you're whiny and are probably sitting in a puddle of your own tears (direct quote) while your 12 kids destroy your already trashed house

9. If you state that you miss your family, you're automatically an immature child that shouldn't be married

10. Everyone that doesn't believe in God is evil/ all Christians are Bible-thumping hicks

11. If you don't have a pair of big girl panties already, you need to find yourself some ASAP!

12. Girlfriends don't belong on a WIVES confession site, duh...

13. If it works/doesn't work for one marriage, it will/won't work for EVERY marriage

14. Military wives are fat, lazy, uneducated, and have too many kids. If you disagree, you're just being defensive

15. Every single other poster on the confession site has it WAAAAY better than you. Obviously, you're just jealous...

16. Every single other poster on the confession site has it WAAAAY worse than you. STFU, you don't understand...

And FINALLY, "YOU KNEW WHAT YOU WERE GETTING INTO WHEN YOU MARRIED HIM!!!"

Did I miss any? I'm sure I did!

that was hilarious!!

im not allowed to miss my husband because he calls everyday. you forgot that.

Love the list lol. I just cant figure out how a faithful, loving, supportive girlfriend is looked down on more over a hoebag wife who cheats because of a piece of paper and a ring. And shit, we where ALL our husband's girlfriend's at one point

LMAO the list is wonderful!! Don't forget that if anyone has anything negative to say about any child anywhere in the world, no matter the circumstances, they are automatically a bitter bitch who should never go out in public and risk dealing with everyone's "precious angels". But if your child ever cries ever then you should stay home and not risk subjecting innocent bystanders to your child's screams.

Good ones, ladies! Did anyone notice that the first two posts on the homepage (at least for the time being) are bitchfests about not being single moms and telling girlfriends to GTFO?

LOL, I was just actually coming in here to mention that! I wonder if anybody actually looked at it.

I can't believe the mods posted that one- you'd think they would want the girlfriends on there. Usually they want as much drama as possible, which is what fights between gfs and wives create. Actually, that's probably why they posted the confession in the first place.

I love the list, Ive heard these issues so many times over so many years I dont even let it bother me anymore I just roll my eyes and worry about things more important. Im not into "cock offs" which is an Aussie term for people trying to out do the other.

LOL, they took down the anti-GF confession.

i could care less about girl friends. the only ones that bother me are the tag chasers who are like oooh i looove my soldier that i met online five days ago we're gonna get married!! bla bla bla only to cover their entire myspace with girlfriend military gifs.

in any case they arent dating MY husband so i dont give a fuck kwim?

OMG you horrible person how dare you leave out the "if you are/ or your spouse is friends with the opposite sex you/they are cheating" or the "porn is the devil/make homemade porn or he'll leave you" debates.

LOL this never ceases to amaze me.